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TO THE ONES WHO ARE AT THE VERGE OF LOSING THEMSELVES!

I recently read a book” happiness” by Dr. Yusuf Merchant and I went through a story where a man decides to kill himself over a failed marriage. Jai Kishan Kapoor who runs now the most popular restaurant chains in Europe was once on the verge of losing himself and to end his life. The reason why his marriage couldn’t work was his wife not giving him the last chance to sort things out. So by planning things accordingly to end his life the sole cause, he could figure out for his suicide was simply to see his better half blameworthy for not giving one more shot for their marriage and make her life hopeless after his demise. He did not understand what it would affect his other world that was his parents but what he prioritized at that particular point of time was the idea of his wife burning in hell than his own parents.  Separation from his wife made him demented A man ought to never give the outright significance to anybody that their nearness or non-appearance begin placing them in a self-destructive state.                                                                        

This could be a sore point to some or many people but they are facing it.  People get anxiety, shiver in their dreams, start imagining themselves in the situation where death could occur just to ease out their pain and what all leads to these things in such a state is just by the thought of parting from their love. This is how a person is put up at the verge of losing himself. Doing some brown study and reciprocate accordingly when things go shady is not something they would get back at, they would rather settle in a delusioned world just to be around the person than buying the reality check that this is not where they should be harmonizing their situation in.  People go to any extent to create their validation in his partner ’s life by losing their self- validation. In the case of Mr. Kapoor as well he barked up the wrong tree by seeking his consent to put himself to sleep forever instead of collecting his fragmented self and bear the music which though he eventually did. Does a person should really lay down a claim to go through such malefic ride just because of the people in our lives we give so much importance to?                                                                                                                        

 “The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in the moments of comfort, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.”- MARTIN LUTHER KING JR.                                               

 When a person starts believing in the concept of practicing his mind to make a belief and make it happen there is nothing like It. The art of creating a thought and trying to imply might give a jolt.  

1. Idea: Close your eyes and picture holding a bit of paper before your face with your name composed on it. Do this for ten seconds. see the letters and feel the paper, however just in your psyche. This is just a psychological vision, so ensure you don't do anything physically.      

2. Activity: Did you see that paper with your name composed on it? presently, get a bit of paper and a pen and physically compose your name on it.                                                          

3. Creation: hold it before your face. It's genuine; contact it. Do you see that you really could contact it? you just brought something that was just in your psyche into reality.                                             

The feeling of strengthening is accomplished by doing this straightforward exercise. The sense of empowerment is achieved by doing this simple exercise. If we do not make a staunch belief when we are in unfavorable situations we put ourselves in a stagnant situation. Today you will trade one day of your life for what you will get in return. So, draw a line to your past, believe yesterday was over and press your speed button into your future. Buddha said “ let us rise and be thankful, for if we didn’t learn a lot today, at least we learned a little, and if we didn’t learn a little, at least we didn’t get sick and if we got sick at least we didn’t die;  so , let us all be thankful.” I am not drawing a pattern or put an emphasis here to cure the readers just by this mini exercise but when we start opting these mini things in life and own up to it we could create a difference.